There have been plenty of discussions over the years about financial servitude, financial domination, money slavery, wallet raping, and the like. Mistress Kiara would like to make it very clear that this blog conveys Her personal opinion and Her own views on the subject. Naturally, your mileage may vary, but we’re going to give you an inside view from the perspective of this particularly lovely and intriguing Money Mistress. Mistress Kiara considers Herself a Financial Domme for one simple reason – She enjoys the idea of a financial sub/slave sending Her tribute so much that it actually causes a physical arousal response. And it took Her a while to get used to this! Imagine in this capitalistic society, finding yourself physically and mentally aroused by the fact that someone gives you their hard-earned money and expects or receives ‘nothing in return.’ She admits she actually felt dirty – as if there were something wrong with Her.
And She asks some of you subs and slaves who are reading this right now – is that any different than the way you yourself felt when you first started to explore your kinky and submissive side? Were you not awkward and unsure or even scared and disgusted by your own thoughts and desires? Now that Mistress Kiara has come to terms with Her desires and allowed them to be incorporated into Her lifestyle, She sees Financial Domination as the ultimate sacrifice. But make no mistake; Her subs and slaves by no stretch of the imagination get ‘nothing in return’. Many of Her fetishes require these slaves and submissives to sacrifice their body. In fact, some fetishes even require the sacrifice of their minds and psyche. But scars heal and memories fade. Debt and financial issues, however, are always oh so close at hand. To know that Her financial slaves make this sacrifice in order to make Her happy sends shivers down Her spine. To see Her slaves put their Mistress before themselves is always a thrill for Her, and that’s the way it should be!
Money will always mean power in this capitalistic society and Domme/sub relationships will always be about a power exchange. Mistress Kiara’s subs relinquish their power to Her, their Dominant Mistress, and both parties get enjoyment from it. To tribute a Mistress is a natural desire – to exchange the symbol of power from yourself to your Goddess – just as it’s a natural desire for Mistress Kiara, as the Financial Mistress, to crave this servitude.
A common misconception about Financial Domination is that it's all a scam and the slaves or subs get nothing return from the arrangement. This is not the way Mistress Kiara works! As with any other type of fetish Dom/sub relationship, She gives Her time, Her control, Her Dominance, Her sincerity, and She allows Her financial slaves a glimpse into Her world. In return for this, both She and Her financial slaves feel there is no possible way they could pay Her back. No matter how many gifts or tributes they send, no matter how many jobs they get, they’ll never make a dent in their debt to this Goddess. She gives many of Her subs purpose, and has even helped to return some from the brink of horrible depression to a fulfilling lifestyle both for themselves and for the One they serve.
For those who simply cannot fathom why someone would enjoy the other end of financial slavery, we asked Mistress Kiara what some of Her financial slaves had to say. The reasons vary from sub to sub, the same way they do with Mistresses. Some tell Her they simply know She deserves tribute as their Mistress. They want Her to live the life of the Goddess She is. They know that the purpose of a slave, financial or otherwise, is to make the life of their Mistress easier and more enjoyable. Others simply want to be a part of Her life. Although they understand She doesn’t need their tributes or gifts, they know it makes Her happy, and that is their goal. Even if just for a moment, they want the smile on Her face to be the result of something they did correctly. She even has some who simply enjoy the humiliation of giving. Seriously, what could be more humiliating than knowing that the only reason She'll pay attention to you is if you pay Her?
Whatever the reasoning behind it, Financial Domination is a valid fetish in all senses, and Mistress Kiara believes it should be respected as such. Not understanding it or choosing not to engage in the fetish oneself does not make it any less valid. Go ahead, click on any of the photos below to get to Her website and learn how you, too, can begin to serve this beautiful and intriguing Goddess!
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