Lifestyle Pro, BDSM Trainer, Kink Therapy
Some of you may remember me and I am pleased to announce that I am back in business, however, not without changes. I will only take on certain types of clients. Ones that I have a genuine connection with, where we can have some sort of friendship outside of sessions and kink, ones that simply wish to learn/be trained or ones that are in search of healing through kink. To session with me you must also either have qualified and verifiable references in the Kink Community or be willing to provide information for a background check. There are no exceptions to this as well as attending a tributed meet beforehand (via skype if out-of-state, which then will not cost either) AND to see if we match you must fill out my Pre-Scene Questionaire, this can be done on your own time or during our meet. I understand this can be uncomfortable for many but it's to ensure our safety (because I will give you references if you ask and will also answer the same questions if you ask) but it's also to establish rapport in an efficient way. This is my style, business first and fun later, safety first and then the illusion of danger later, this will not change so don't try to negotiate. If you try to, I simply won't respond, spamming will get you blocked. I am not a licensed therapist or a master of my craft, but I know quite a bit and have helped many.
Know that I post a lot about my work and life on many sites and apps and thus like to take pictures and videos or write about the experience, you are also welcome to do this as long as you tag me. However, if this is not something you are comfortable with then just say so and you won't be posted. I am also a gogo dancer, burlesque dancer, poi and kink performer and teacher.
I love helping people but I don't do drama, that's not to say I don't have drama or avoid conflict but if it's not going to serve me and others and promote growth then I'm simply not going to engage. I also only help people when I have the ability to do so and if someone is not dependent on my help. I'm in a beautifully open and committed relationship with someone and while I look for genuine connection with my clients understand that it will never be more than a friendship. However, even single, I never get sexually intimate or romantic with a client. But with that in mind I think it's good to know and understand that our sexuality can effect every part of our lives so here's some personal info about me to see if we fit:
I personally identify as a Switch, Professionally though I am Dom but IF we line up well in those areas and really get to know each other then switching may be a possibility. I am Pansexual and i dont care for the binary gender system but i was born with female body parts and still have them and will use the system for fantasy purposes only (hence why my title is ok) also I am Sapiosexual, Demisexual (if you couldn't tell), Autosexual and Fictosexual.
Other things to know about me in general:
-I have quite a few (though common) mental disorders that I also manage with therapy and medication, again, to be accepted and worked with but not enabled or excused.
-I dont drink but do partake in other recreational and medical substances almost daily. I've recently discovered that I have a bad spine and I vape to deal with the pain flare-ups. However, I don't partake when it's work or school (I am in my Senior year of college) related.
-I'm also asthmatic.
-Moral Vegan & Environmentalist, love to travel
-Spiritual/Theologian, minor trained Empath, Psychic & Medium
-Feminist, Activist, Independent, Socialist
-Mindful, Yoga & Body training lover, super interested in self-defense training, parkour and anything daredevil/thrill seeking
-Volunteer
-WEEB & Geek
-Cat Mom
-Lover of Black Culture & Asian Culture among many others
-Not a saint, I have a fucked up past and I throw bits and pieces of it into conversation casually, usually in a humorous way, if you can't handle that then block it out or walk away, trauma triggers are entirely different though, just say something to me then.
If you've made it this far then congrats, my kink list is below.
affectionate domination, aftercare, age play, anal play (no fingering or sex), anal stretching, ass play (yours or mine with a barrier), ball gag, spanking, begging, behavior modification, bimboification, biting (with barrier), blindfolds, body worship, bondage, boot licking, roleplay, breath play, candle wax, caressing (non-genital), catsuits, cbt, chains, chastity devices, clamps and clips, clothespins, cock slapping (with instruments only), lead/leash, collars, control, corporal punishment, corset training, cosplay, crawling, crops, crying, cuddling, d/s, daddy/girl, degradation, dirty text messaging, discipline, dollification, edging (verbal), enemas, erotic literature readings, massage (non-genital), eye contact/eye contact restrictions, face slapping, facials (not with my cum), fear (everything to do with it), female supremacy, femdom, feminization, fishnets, foot/feet, gagging/choked by objects or limbs, gender play, genital piercing play (already pierced only), dildos, hair pulling, handcuffs, hot oil, humor, ice cubes, kneeling, lace, latex, legs, lingerie, lipstick, making home movies, masks, mental bondage, mommy/boy dynamics, nipple play, obedience training, online play, orgasm denial, oral play (non-genital), paddling, panty-sniffing, pantyhose/stockings, photography, pigtails, play punishment, polyamory, power exchange, predator/prey, public humiliation, punishment, puppy play, pussy worship (no contact), remote-control devices, sacred/spiritual sexuality, sadism, scratching, seduction, sensation play, sensory deprivation, sensual play, sensualism, showering, skirts, slavery, sluts, smoking, speech restriction, spitting, spreader bars, forced swallowing, talking dirty, tease & denial, teasing, tongue torture, touching, toys, transvestism, uniforms, vampires, vintage, voyeurism, wartenberg pinwheels, watersports, whipping, flogging, caning and many more!
Curious about: anal hooks, blood play, branding, edge/knife play, medical play, needle play, nun/priest play, tens unit/electricity.
Email me at: ladyletty7@yahoo.com
Subject: where you saw my ad
Body: No matter who you are your first message to me should be a respectful and proper introduction and I won't respond to anything less. Type the word Lecher somewhere in it as well so I understand you have read my entire profile and are subject to being chastised if you ask me questions that are answered within it. I will not respond to messages that don't have that word in their first message.
