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Gorgeous Atlanta-based Mistress Ayn is on the move again as she announces her attendance at DomCon NOLA from October 10–14!  This year She'll be recognized as a Guest of Honor and will attend the requisite functions befitting this status.  She will also offer FemDom sessions in the host hotel as Her schedule permits.

Mistress Ayn is an internationally respected and notable figure of both the professional FemDom and lifestyle scenes.  Based in Atlanta, she sessions from world-famous Atlanta Dungeon and is the Proprietress of ultra exclusive FemDom Mansion.  She’s an expert in many forms of BDSM, including bondage, domination, humiliation, discipline and various forms of D/s play.

Mistress Ayn will attend the following events:

• Opening night dinner
• Red Carpet walk and opening ceremonies
• ProDom Social
• Kinky parade down Bourbon Street
• The Mistress Tea
• VIP Social
• And, of course, the nightly play parties

And you’ll be happy to know She has set some time aside for sessions in between these activities and will also be available for public sessions at the Friday, Saturday and Sunday night play parties.  These sessions are always a ton of fun – especially for the exhibitionists!

Go ahead and click on any of the gorgeous photos below for contact information and book now to serve Mistress Ayn in New Orleans!

Be sure to follow Mistress Ayn & Atlanta Dungeon on Twitter!

The rumors are true, and strap-on, pegging, and prostate massage expert – Erin Black – is about to hit the road again!  Do not miss Her in:

• Detroit MI October 11–13
• Charlotte NC October 17–19
• Charleston SC October 20–23
• Atlanta GA November 16–19

Yes, you may officially start to get excited now!

Erin understands that ‘ordinary’ isn’t a word which would ever describe your passions, wants, and tastes…. those desires that quicken your pulse, redden your cheeks, and dilate your pupils. She knows them well. After a few years as a Professional Dominatrix, She ventured to bend the definition of what it means to be sexually dominant. She never truly identified as a Dominatrix and sees it as a word too often loaded with formality for Her own tastes. Quite simply, Erin is a top, a fetishist, and an anal play enthusiast. What this means for you is that She’s playfully and powerfully in charge and knows exactly what it takes to put you over pleasure’s edge.  

Ready to have your desires made real?  Then go ahead and click on any of the stunning images below to get to Erin’s website and book now while space remains!  Pre-booking is highly recommended as Her schedule tends to fill up quickly and special requests must be made in advance. 

Be sure to follow Erin Black on Twitter!

Today, we turn to lovely Florida-based Evil Opal for some advice on hard limits.  You’re probably familiar with hard limits as being those lines you’re not willing to cross; activities you absolutely don’t want to do in a BDSM power exchange. But Opal suggests you also consider the hard limits you must have in your Mistress/slave relationship.

Hard limits as must-haves

Let’s face it, Opal knows you wouldn’t be into this kinky stuff if you didn’t have fantasies and desires. And it’s very likely you have one or two fetishes you’d find extremely tough to live without. It’s ok to consider these things when you’re looking for a dream Domme, Opal says. It’s also ok to bring those things up when you negotiate a slave contract or slave training program with your Mistress.

Say there’s a certain fetish or type of play deeply necessary to your sexual or emotional satisfaction. Opal says it’s not only ok but vital that you find a Domme who’s happy to incorporate those things into your Mistress/slave relationship. A couple of common examples are crossdressing or toilet training. If these things are a BIG DEAL for you, then Opal suggests you ask yourself whether you’d ever really be happy with a Domme who was turned off by them.

Mistress/slave relationship protocols

There are also some less obvious aspects of a Mistress/slave relationship which can be very important, and level of contact is a good example, according to Opal.  How often do you desire contact with your Domme? Are you hoping for daily chats or are monthly play sessions enough? Different expectations regarding level of contact is apparently a very common source of dissatisfaction and conflict between Dommes and subs.

Likewise, you may each desire a different level of protocol, says Opal. If you’re the type of slave who longs for high protocol, you’ll feel unsatisfied with a low protocol owner where a more egalitarian-minded sub might chafe miserably under high protocol demands. And unless you’ve already given it some thought, you might not even know which kind of sub you are. And it’s ok not to know! But that too should be communicated to your Domme, so she can understand what to expect from you – which in this case would be your need/desire to experiment with different levels of protocol, to determine what works for you.

Practical needs in D/s

Opal sees aftercare as another great example of ‘hard limit’ must haves in a Mistress/slave relationship. And this includes aftercare for both physical and emotional aspects of a BDSM scene. You might need words of reassurance after that heavy humiliation scene you crave, just as much as you’d need your wounds tended to after heavy physical play.

Last but certainly not least, there are any number of practical ‘vanilla’ needs which Opal suggests be included in a slave training program or BDSM slave contract. Health needs for instance: are you diabetic? Then it’s entirely reasonable that you be allowed to eat properly and regularly, and to make sure you take your insulin. Other material needs should be considered as well. For instance, Opal requires Her slaves to make a financial contribution to Her as part of their servitude. This is one of Her personal ‘must-have’ hard limits. But She also requires that they budget enough to pay for their own bills, including health insurance, retirement savings, etc. Debt and bankruptcy may be fun to fantasize about but what good is a broke(n) tool She can no longer use? Opal prefers to take proper care of Her tools, so they’ll be usable for a lifetime!

Is there anything you must have, in order to be satisfied in your Mistress/slave relationship? Then click on any of the sexy images above to get to gorgeous Evil Opal’s website or talk to Her about it right now!

Be sure to follow Evil Opal on Twitter HERE and HERE!

We have some very exciting news to share!  Exotic beauty Mistress Ultra Violet of Atlanta Dungeon fame and gorgeous LA-based King Lexa will take over Tokyo, Japan September 10–18! These Women enter lives to push limits and the Japanese subs need to know it.

Mistress Ultra Violet is an artist, Dominatrix, model, and dungeon-owner located in Atlanta, Georgia. She truly is the new breed of Professional Dominatrix: strong, aggressive, and fearless.  At an impressive 5'8" and 115 lbs, you’ll be spellbound by Her lustrous, thick, red hair with its violet highlights, but you’ll be utterly captivated by her ocean green eyes. 

King Lexa is a beautiful, young Dominatrix rapidly becoming a who's who in the BDSM scene. She gets excited just thinking about dominating and humiliating you, and She knows how much you'll squirm with delight while She tortures and teases you.  She enjoys many aspects of Domination, but full toilet training, CBT, foot worship, and scissor holds are where Her true joy lies.

The two Ladies are attracted to the authentic submissive who exhibits intelligence, civility, attentiveness, and financial oblation.  Their focus, however, is power exchange.  To craft personal challenges with the sole purpose of exploring new levels of your submission is what They enjoy most, and They’re interested to know how you will satisfy Them.

Make no mistake, however, as you’ll fall prey to Them during your very first session.  But take heart, it will be a fair chance for you to demonstrate your ability to serve Them properly!

The two legends will conduct both single and double sessions and you will submit to some, if not all, of Their primary interests:

• the erotic art of denial
• verbal humiliation
• CBT
• anguished control
• coerced forced scenarios (this may include TT, emasculation, sissy modification, mental manipulation, and impact play)

This is a once in a lifetime opportunity to serve two of the world’s most beautiful Goddesses, so click on any of the stunning photos above and book your session today!

Be sure to follow Mistress Ultra Violet, King Lexa, & Atlanta Dungeon on Twitter!