sb: Domina Boss this is really an honor for me. I know how highly regarded you are in the scene.

DIB: That's really nice of you to say! I feel your interviews are great! I always read the whole interview!

sb: Thank you very much! You just made my day! So tell me, how were you introduced to the scene?

DIB: I go to a lot of films. I remember a trailer. There was this woman dressed entirely in black latex wearing exotic makeup and smoking a cigarette mounted in a cigarette holder. I was very fascinated and attracted to her. I have become her - though minus the cigarette most of the time! :)

I also played bondage games. I was always the instigater.

sb: How did you establish your dominant identity?

DIB: I started out as 'kinky'. I did everything I could - to see what it was all about. I wrote and directed large scale performance art shows in front of audiences where I explored various roles with people I trusted. I became a pro-Dom in 1994, and acquired this space - The Compound in 1997.

I am not ashamed of this lifestyle. I have learned a tremendous amount about human nature. I have grown and have helped others to as well. I had the classic upbringing for a Sadeian Woman; too much or not enough discipline, libertinage, and the rebellion of a certain kind of sexual energy. Water was like gasoline to the flame I had inside.

sb: Do you also work with other women?

DIB: Yes, I have guest Mistresses here often.

sb: Do you maintain a stable of personal slaves also?

DIB: A few. I do not accept applications for such things, however. I have two house boys, a web/video/multi-media slave, and two other slaves who I call on when things need to be done. Personal slaves are single - so I am not disrupting their lifestyle.

sb: What would get a personal slave dismissed?

DIB: Poor attitude or manipulative behavior.

sb: What was the wildest scene you ever did?

DIB: My scenes are always wild! I took a slave to the park naked under a trench coat once. he was wearing combat boots. he had on vibrating nipple clamps, a vibrating butt plug, and an electric ball shocker. I handcuffed him to the bench, and put the key in his boot, so he knew it was there.

Then I stood 30 feet away smoking. I kept shocking him with an electric ball shocker every time someone sat next to him. If they questioned him he had to say "i am not permitted to speak".

Another time Mistress Anastasia and I went to pick up a slave at the airport. he wasn't at the gate as we instructed him, so he was made to go into the bathroom and change into a 'punishment outfit' (An insane asylum jumpsuit and underneath that - all of the vibrating/shock equipment on his sexual anatomy). his original clothes went into the suitcase.

He was also made to wear a giant foam yellow cowboy hat that had a huge star on it. We chided him and called him 'tex'. We made him sit on a bench outside of a restaurant (still in the airport) facing away from us so we could see everyone point and laugh at him while we ate dinner.

I kept shocking his balls repeatedly. we then walked him out to the parking lot, put him in a straightjacket, and then hoisted him up into the trunk of a pink corvette (Mistress Anastasia owns a car! -lot) and drove him to the Compound for his session.

I do a lot of extended and overnight scenes. I also like public spectacle. I used to be an artist, so I get really creative when I play.

sb: Yes I agree! Public play is great! And what was the harshest scene you ever participated in?

DIB: We just made a video here called 'panty boy'. It was the severest humiliation I have ever done. The way we heap verbal humiliation on the slave while he dances is downright brutal!

sb: Do you do public outings with your crossdressing slaves?

DIB: Yes, and they often chicken out and have to be forced. My favorite is "slave to the nails": The slave has those fake acrylics put on at a nail salon, and when we get back to The Compound I take a drill and make a tiny little hole in the tip of each nail and lock the nails together with tiny luggage locks.

Then I fill the slaves purse with female essentials: tampons, pads, yeast infection cream...Mistress Anastasia shows up in 'the car of the moment' and off we go to a gay bar. The slave is locked to a bar stool, and I give the bartender a $20 so he can stay there.

I say loudly in front of all the men "This slut only gets water through a straw!" Then I go through the sissies purse in front of everyone. We always leave the sissy at the bar so we can go and dance, and various men walk up and say things to the sissy like "Nice nails", and "you look atrocious", and so forth. Gay men are very witty and can be quite cruel. I have learned a lot about verbal humiliation from my gay male sisters who are true queens in the art of 'reading'.

sb: So you do really enjoy humiliating your slaves?

DIB: Yes, I do play with some who aren't into verbal though, and I respect their boundaries.

sb: Do you enjoy having your feet worshipped?

DIB: Yes, I get a one to two hour foot massage every evening form one MY #1 personal.

sb: he is very lucky:). What are your favorite types of scenes?

DIB: Since I am Sadeian, I enjoy anything that has the power of the 'tableau'. Any spectacle, mindfuck, psychodrama or play with multi-dimensional levels with surprises gets me off.

sb: Is there any type of scene you do not do?

DIB: I don't castrate, cut, poop on people, or change diapers.

sb: What equipment and implements do you have?

DIB: This will take all day! Please visit and take a look at the 6 fully equipped theme rooms!

sb: Yes that Compound looks amazing! Do you also have a trans-gender wardrobe?

DIB: I have a full wardrobe for sissies. you can get a good look at MY cd wardrobe by checking out the video "Shaved by The Boss". I do a full head shaving and a complete wardrobe fitting on a hapless male creature. Video description: Full head shaving!

Even his clothes get some treatment with the shears. The ultimate in humiliation! Witness slave ramona's defeat on the porch of the Compound in broad daylight. his clothing is torn off to reveal a corset and stockings. he is then taken upstairs and tied to the barbers chair and shorn and shaved.

Forced femmed, he is marched up the stairs for light discipline in the corset stockade in the school room. he is used as a toilet at the end in the new potty chair. Lots of bondage and ballet boots. For the cross-dressing and humiliation enthusiast.

sb: Yes I saw that video and it is really wild!!

DIB: Thanks! Perhaps I will get my hands on you someday! he-he!

sb: Uh, Yes Mistress but I really don't think I could pull off that look like your slave did in that video. :) Did you envision the success of Your webpage when you first started it?

DIB:I had no idea my website would take off the way it has! I am very happy with it!

sb: Yes it is really something! So tell me, How did you like your trip to the OWK?

DIB: I liked it enough to write about it. I am making OWK a yearly event for the Compound.

sb: Yes i read your article and it is really something! I advise all my readers to definitely not miss it! So is there any scene that you have not done yet that you would like to?

DIB: Yes. I would love to do some public suspension! Anyone game?

sb: Thay's cool! i know You travel all over the world. Please describe Your most memorable recent trip?

DIB: I recently went to Egypt. I was an archaeologist while in College. I worked for the University of Pittsburgh here in Pennsylvania. Egyptology is a much different study of course, but I felt that it was a once in a lifetime trip - the millennium - so off I went.

I really appreciate the fact that I am an American woman now that I have gone on that trip. Islamicwomen have fewer rights. It is changing, but slowly. I caused a lot of controversy. I took my slave along, and they could not understand that at all. It was very funny.

sb: Domina Boss, thank you for the interview!

DIB: You are most welcome!