sb: Oh wow thank You very much for this exclusive interview, for dickie virgin, Mistress Sade! i am a big fan of Yours and all the Mistresses at Rapture. Please tell us a little about Your background. Where are You originally from?

MS: I grew up in Texas. AKA, Hell as I liked to call it. If you're born there they give you a Texikan shot at birth and you love it and never want to leave. Otherwise... you get out ASAP like I did. I graduated early and left to explore lifetwo days later. Slowly making my way up the East Coast I eventually stopped in NYC and fell in love with the fabulous human parade.

sb: Yes New York is really a cool place! Please describe Your style of Domination?

MS: I'm sure the way I see myself and the way my different boys see me would give a different image every time. In that I guess you could say my style is honest. It is subject to the environment, people, and atmosphere present. I like using the most effective measures to reach a desired state and that is very much subjective. Sometimes easy and laid back, others the strict femme-fatal where one is walking on eggshells. It's subtle and fluid, nurturing without being motherly. Intimate.

I'm a sadist at heart and find much joy in the sadi-maso exchange. I gently, or not so gently, guide my play partners to new levels. I enjoy teaching them to embrace this side of themselves in ways they never thought possible. To find the deeper beauty and complexity of the sensations they experience. I have strong bonds with my pets because of this mutual embrace. We teach each other to appreciate their pains and pleasures on a new level each time. I'm a very intense person and what you see in my eyes is never a camouflage.

My desires, happiness, and contempt are expressed through my eyes. Intuitive slaves find their training there more than with verbal commands. Of course, as with all women, much is affected by my current mood. Especially the one my play partner puts me in. The dynamic I have in session is subject to that. Because my Top space is not a single dress I wear but an extension of myself I enjoy many different dynamics and am not particular to one or another.

sb: What is Your favorite type of scene?

MS: The Sadist’s Pain and Pleasure as we’ve come to call it at Rapture. Pain has infinite possibilities. The entire body is subject to it. As much as I adore torturing the cock and balls, nipples, and corporal punishment, I love to open my boyo’s eyes to the exquisite pains that can be felt throughout their entire body. I have a special place in my heart for masochists that embrace the various tortures I inflict upon their ears. I have a big thing for ears.

After my sub’s body is reeling from all of the endorphins I love to overwhelm them with pleasure. They’re so incredibly aware of their body at that point. My love for anal play is anything but a secret. I love all levels of it. Introducing a “virgin” to the intense pleasures to be found there, burying my strap on into an experienced player, and coaxing out the insatiable slut in all of them. It’s a hard toss up whether I like a pain slut or an ass slut more. Give me both and I’m in absolute heaven! Pleasure is its own form of torture, too, though. Pain subsides and you may feel relieved, but pleasure leaves you wanting more and more and more.

sb: Yes i know of Your expertise in this area and i understand You are the best! Please tell me the most intense scene You ever did?

sb: The first thing that comes to mind is when I did paper cutting on my slave’s tongue. He’s not a masochist so much as he’ll do it just to please me. I had him lying on an OBGYN chair as I sat over him. Always maintaining eye contact, I used thick paper to slice into his tongue over and over before cutting open a fresh lemon, biting into it myself, and squeezing the fresh pulp into his lacerated mouth.

This was followed with a few heavy drops of Tabasco sauce right on the raw tip. The air in the room was permeated with the scent of blood, citrus, and sadistic lust. It was intense on many levels, but was special to me in that he never once pulled away from me. Eye contact was only broken when I had to search for my next tool, and he never withdrew his tongue. Even as he cried out his surrender was absolute. Of course after something that hot we had an equally hot strap-on scene.

sb: Wow that is really intense! How about humiliation scenes. Do You enjoy these types of scenes?

MS: I’m not a humiliatrix per se. Your humiliations come from my honest reaction to things. The boys generally do a pretty good job of humiliating themselves whether they mean to or not and I just use my sharp tongue to point those things out. I find that I like humiliating them in that way much better than using scripts.

sb: How about cross dressers? Do You enjoy these type of scenes?

MS: Absofrigginlutely! I painted my father’s toenails for years so when he traveled he would think of me. I love cosmetics and doing makeovers on my girlfriends and boyos. Full transformation cross-dressing scenes are just so much fun! What’s not to love about a dirty-mouthed cock-hungry little slut dressed exactly how they feel?

sb: wow Your father was very lucky! How about water sports? Do You engage in this?

MS: Can’t say as I do. Shower play has never interested me so I’ve never engaged in it. I don’t have anything against it, I just have no interest in participating in it and no one has ever swayed me in that. That may change someday, but I wouldn’t suggest anyone hold their breath. If you consider spitting a water sport I’m all about it! I can cover you with so much you’ll think you had a GS.

sb: Well that sounds like a great humiliation scene! Your legs and feet are absolutely exquisite. Do You enjoy foot worship?

MS: I’ve always been a sucker for a good massage! Wearing those psychotically painful shoes for so long would have me begging and groveling for one! Well, not quite begging and groveling, but I sure wouldn’t say no! I love having my feet nibbled on like baby corn, too. All up and down the sides will have me sighing in no time. A strong tongue to massage my feet with knowing strokes is absolutely divine. My favorite spot on my legs to have worshipped is behind my knees. It’s oh-so-sensitive and always sends shivers up my spine! *drool* All you have to keep in mind is that the skin is very sensitive to touch so you should utilize everything you have. Lips, teeth, sucking, tongue, breath, it’s all wonderful.

sb: Do You like heavy corporal?

MS: Love it. It’s therapeutic for everyone. You get the endorphin rush and a symphony of exquisite sensations. I get to unleash my strength and energy upon tender and helpless flesh. There’s a rhythm to corporal not unlike sex. It’s deep, intense, and beautiful when two people can find each other in this. I love to work up a good sweat with a damn good thrashing.

sb: What is Your favorite implement for this?

MS: Oh geeze, I hate the word favorite. It’s so limiting. How about my favorite implement to use on you?

sb: Anytime Mistress Sade! Do You have any personal slaves?

MS: Not in the sense that they’re involved in my personal life. I’m the “Head” of Rapture and that takes up a lot of my time. At this point I don’t have enough free time to devote to a personal. The various houseboys help me out in every capacity I need and I love them very much for that.

sb: Do You offer financial slavery?

MS: Only to one person at a time, but no one at the moment. My goal with financial domination isn’t to bleed someone dry as I like my slaves to be happy, healthy, and productive. The longer they stay that way the more use they are to. A content slave tends to keep his job and thus keep filling my bank account after all. Why stop with just what he has at this time? Bleeding someone dry is another story. I can do that in one afternoon no problem. I love to be taken shopping by someone else’s bank account. Take me to Macy’s and I’ll even let you put the shoes on my feet. I was there this afternoon and the salesman made a comment that the pair I was wearing was very SM. I said that was the point and let him kiss my toes right there.

sb: Do You offer phone training or webcam training for money slaves and distance slaves?

MS: I do phone training, and people ask to be my webcam and MSN slave all the friggin’ time. So much so that I’ve dedicated a blog to ridiculous emails I get- http://blog.myspace.com/thesadist. It’s a hoot. I’m a hands-on type of person and don’t get nearly as much satisfaction with online things as I do with real-time play. I don’t have a webcam right now, but that might change once our new pay site is up. Honestly, the only point I can see to having webslaves is to have them lavish me with gifts. Maybe one of these days someone will buy me a webcam but you won’t find one on any of my wishlists.

sb: What is the greatest thrill You get from Domination?

MS: It’s indescribable. I’d say it’s fulfilling for me. Ah, domination, you complete me *sigh*.

sb:. What is Your opinion of slaves who try to top from the bottom?

MS: They’re slaves to themselves and their own fetishes and desiresnot to me. If they can be honest about what they’re there to see me for it won’t be an issue as long as we’re both enjoying the scene. If they keep saying they want to be dominated and controlled but try to top they’re in for a rude awakening.

sb: Do you session with novices?

MS: All the time. I love fresh meat!

sb: Very cool! Q. Do You have any fan clubs or groups?

MS: RaptureNY on Yahoo groups. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/RaptureNY/ I have my own group on Myspace, but it’s mostly pictures because I don’t pay a lot of attention to the forum on it. I also have a Domme Board on the Max Fisch forums.

sb: What can a sub visiting You for the first time do to please You?

MS: Be honest in everything he says and does while remaining respectful. If you’re not a submissive never act like one because you think that is what is expected of you. I can enjoy fetishes and masochistic desires for what they are and submission that is faked brings about a side of me best avoided. Be presentable and well groomed. I do as much and I expect the same respect from them. Don’t ever come to my House high either. I hate narcotics and I’ll boot you out the door if you’re drunk or high.

sb: But you are much more than a professional and lifestyle Domina, perhaps you could share one or two of your other interests?

MS: I’m fascinated with the human body and am studying to become a D.O. I’ve worked in the medical field for a few years in various fields and love everything about it. I’m creative in that I’m a published poet, painter and photographer. It’s been a while since I’ve worked on my art, but I’m as much of a shutter bug as ever. It would take a strong person to drag me out of my dark room!

sb: What are Your favorite types of gifts?

MS: Ones given with love of course! I have a number of wish list because as I’m sure you knowa girl in the city always has her eye on a few new things! I love to be taken shopping. I’d be happy with anything off of any of my wish list, or something that someone saw and just thought about me or thought I would enjoy. Little things that maybe have a special meaning just to the two of us are always wonderful. I just ask that no one buy me any more personal lubricant for my personal life. That seems to be a popular one and I assure you I have enough for a lifetime! LOL! Besides, I haven’t reached the age yet where I don’t have plenty of my own!

sb: Very well i will remember not to buy You that Maam. Do You attend any public functions where Your many fans can meet You?

MS: Not very often. Though, on occasion I do go to Byte or Paddles. I’ll be at the Black and Blue Ball of course. I’ve never been much of a club or bar person.

sb: Do You also work with Women and couples?

MS: Not so much. I’m completely hetero and while I find women beautiful, and I love working with them, I am not attracted to the sex which diminishes my desire to Top them.

sb: I know You have traveled extensively? What places have You found the most appealing?

MS: I do travel a lot, and am strongly drawn to beaches and areas with a large body of water. Must be the Cancero in me. I’ve recently gone to Costa Rica and fell in love with everything about it. I’ll be hitting the beaches in St. Maarten soon. Gotta love those nude beaches! I can’t stand tan lines on myself!

sb: i wish i was there to see that!! What Mistresses do You admire in the scene?

MS: Mistress Octavia Arena. I love her to death. We’ve become close friends and I respect her knowledge and experience as a professional Mistress very much. She has taught me much about the scene and was also my co-conspirator in one of the most powerful double scenes I’ve ever done. We click on so many levels and I greatly love, respect, and admire every bit of her. I admire Diva Midori, and Mistresses Carrie and Leda for all they have accomplished in the scene. Bridgette Harrington because she loved ropes so much she set out to teach those who would learn. And while Flagg isn’t a Mistress, I’ve learned more from him than I could possibly be able to express thanks for.

sb: Yes these Mistresses are all legends and Mistress Carrie is awesome! Please tell us about Your fabulous facilities at Rapture?

MS: We’re always building on and adding more to the space so it’s always getting better and better. In a nut shell - Rapture is a 2500 sq. foot space in Tribeca. We have four spaces:
· The Red Room- Every dungeon should have a red room IMO. It’s a huge room with lots of floor space, a St. Andrews cross, custom furniture, and implements galore.
· The Silver Room- My personal favorite. If you see me it will most likely be in this room. It’s large like the Red Room, but the space is dominated by a bondage bed.
· The Medical Room- Full of an assortment of medical-play goodies and a very comfortable OBGYN table, if I do say so myself.
· The Suspension Room- We just finished this room and I’m very happy with the outcome. We have a large assortment of hemp ropes, a leather sling, and a winch.
· We’re currently working on a reception room as well.

We are a very well stocked dungeon with a wide assortment of corporal tools, medical and edge play instruments, electrical devices, and just about anything else you can imagine. All of our floors are hardwood and cleanliness is of the highest priority here. No one wants to play in a dirty space or with dirty toys. If we wouldn’t use it on ourselves we wouldn’t use it. There is of course a full bathroom facility with fresh towels.

sb: Wow, Rapture is without a doubt a fabulous place! And with You in charge it might be the best dungeon in New York City! How may prospective slaves contact you?

MS: A dozen different ways, our website for full booking and contact information · By email one or email two, on Myspace on Nite Flirt through our listing RaptureGirls, and on the Max Fisch forum.

sb: Mistress Sade thank You VERY much for this interview, i think You are really gorgeous and obviously a fantastic Mistress!

MS: You are welcome slave bruce.


May 7, 2006