An Interview With The Famous HypnoDomme Mistress Bella

sb: Thank You VERY MUCH for this exclusive interview for dickie virgin Mistress Please tell us a little about Your background. Where are You originally from?

MB: I'm originally from Berkeley, CA, (where else would a nice Jewish Pagan girl grow up?). I traveled to Eastern Europe and lived on a Kibbutz in Israel when I was a teenager. My passion for theatre led me to performing in plays, vaudeville, festivals and movies.  Professionally I was a Hypnotherapist in NYC for 14 years, Currently I travel as a Dominatrix offering sessions in New York, Kentucky and Florida.  Occasionally I offer sessions in other states and countries as well (I'd love an excuse to go to Amsterdam).

sb: Were You always so dominant and powerful?

MB: I have always been dominant and powerful.  Growing up as a Jewish American Princess certainly left me pre-disposed to being a dominating woman, coupled with the fact that I'm a bossy Aries... Look out!

sb: Please explain what a Hypno-Domme actually does to Her subject?

MB: Simply, I control the mind of my subject.  I force them to surrender to my command and submit to my sadist nature. I use Hypnotic techniques to expose the deeper levels of kink, perversion and the fantasies of the sub-conscious mind.

Hypno-Domination allows heightened awareness and arousing sensation enhancing intimacy and confidence. I use Neuro-Linguistic Programming for powerful and effective transformation.

sb: Would You consider Yourself a sadist?

MB: Most definitely! I take great pleasure from administering pain... emotionally and physically.

sb: When did You turn professional?

MB: About two years ago.  It was time for me to merge my experience and skill in the Hypnotherapy world with my BDSM interest and lifestyle.  I was lucky to have some top Dominas in NY to mentor me.

sb: What are Your favorite fetishes?

MB: My favorite at the moment is Nipple Torture... there is something about abusing vulnerable sweet nipples that turns me on immeasurably. I could (and have) spent an entire session hypnotizing a slave through his nipples.

I also very much enjoy Humiliation, Bondage and Role Play.  I often get excited thinking about different scenarios and dynamics to explore in Role Play... beatings from a governess, brainwashing by an evil psychologist, mommy taking care of her little boy (or spanking him raw), a young prostitute learning from her madame, a business man being captured, tortured, forced to submit, forced to stand naked, vulnerable and inspected, a queen commanding her servant.

sb: What is Your favorite type of clothing?

MB: Leather.

sb: What types of slaves do You like the most?

MB: Those who are sincere in their desire to serve.  I do not like "brats" (even as a role play).  I like slaves that want to be used and abused, loved and aroused, cared for and tortured.

sb: Do You work with cross-dressers?

MB: Yes! I love cross-dressers. Where's my lipstick?

sb: Do You like foot worship scenes?

MB: Absolutely. The Worship of my toes, my heels, my soles turns me on immensely.  I am very appreciative of a slave that knows how to give a great foot massage (take a weekend reflexology course).  I like it hard, especially when you squeeze my foot with both hands.

sb: Can You tell us one very unusual scene you have had with a slave?

MB: A television producer wanted me to tie him up and pitch scripts to him.  Since script pitching is what he had to deal with all day long, it was considered a form of torture.  We had a blast, I tortured him with script ideas (some of my own) spanked him senseless, kicked him in the balls repeatedly and abused him with a leather strap.  He went into an ecstatic state of blissful pain!  The the next day at work he was deeply amused (and a little aroused) whenever someone mentioned a new script..

sb: Do You get into humiliation scenes?

MB: Yes! I wasn't sure I would.  I thought I wouldn't enjoy it because most of my training as a Hypnotherapist is to increase self esteem not tear it down, yet the reverse is true, the paradox of this dynamic leads to greater self esteem and confidence.

sb: Do you session with novices?

MB: Yes.  I appreciate the courage and willingness of someone exploring something new and wanting to expand themselves.  I create a space of intimacy and trust.

sb: What can a slave visiting You for the first time do to please You?

MB: Gifts of stockings and fine wine are always appreciated. Writing your comments about your session and experience for posting  on web sites. Being open and vulnerable, letting me take you into my care.

sb: What are Your favorite types of gifts?

MB: Fine clothing and fetish attire. Gift certificates to Dean and Deluca, Balducci's, and Zabars.  A day at the spa. I adore custom corsets, leather coats and leather dresses. Sexy and practical (remember I might walk on you) boots, shoes and stockings (see the wish list on my site for the specific outfits I want, sizes, color before you make an investment)

sb: What is proper slave protocol for someone about to session with You?

MB: You must first fill out the application on my web site. Be on time for the session... do not come early or late. Prepare yourself for the session when you arrive, special outfit, naked, diapers, cock ring etc.   Look forward to the session and have specific ideas and desires about what you want to learn, heal and experience in the session.

sb: Could You share one or two of your other interests?

MB: Dancing. Singing. Making documentaries.  Hanging out with kids.  Being involved in the intentional communities movement.  Witchcraft.

sb: Is there any type of scene you do not do?

MB: No skat, strap-on, anal play or anything illegal.

sb: Do You travel a lot?

MB: Yes. This last year I traveled to Vegas, LA, SF, Chicago, Washington DC, Tennessee,

sb: Do You also work with Women and couples?

MB: Yes.

sb: How can prospective slaves contact you?

MB: Prospective slaves can contact me through my web site.

sb: If someone gave You 5 million dollars what would You do with it?

MB: Expand my private estate in Kentucky, creating my dream retreat for artists, sex workers, Mistresses and their submissives, activists, healers, travelers and those folk doing great things in the world...

Fund some of my creative projects (Currently a play and a personal documentary). Travel, travel, travel!

sb: Mistress Bella, thank You very much for this exclusive interview for dickie virgin. Is there anything You would like to add in closing?

MB: thank you slave b. I am grateful to live the lifestyle of a Dominatrix, as a Dominatrix I think of myself as part actress, part therapist and part pervert.  And yet that is just the beginning!

March 12, 2010