“Most people are afraid of suffering. But suffering is a kind of mud to help the lotus flower of happiness grow. There can be no lotus flower without the mud.”

- Thich Nhat Hanh

Welcome, My pet.

I am an androgynous bisexual siren with a taste for sadomasochism and ritual power exchange. My auburn curls and piercing blue eyes betray My feral nature and hedonistic inclinations - I am equal parts playful, bloodthirsty, sensual, nurturing and demanding. My quiet confidence and seductive touch will captivate you, body and mind.

Consensual pain, surrender, service and kinky play are embodied portals W/we may enter and come through the other side transformed. I treat each session as an opportunity to co-create a transformative scene or unforgettable date.

Rediscover your vulnerability and strength. Witness your own ability to endure, and keep coming back to delve deeper.

AT A GLACE…

Location: Based in Madison, WI (available for travel)

Honorifics: Goddess/Mistrix

Pronouns: She/They

Age: 29

Height: 5' 7"

Cup Size: 34D

Shoe Size: 9.5

Body mods: 6 tattoos

Hair: Red, curly

Body Hair: Red, curly and kept all natural

Eyes: Blue

Zodiac: Sagittarius Sun, Gemini Moon, Libra Rising

Orientation: Queer, Leather Queer, Bisexual

Education: BA in Gender and Sexuality Studies

Current Reading: Meeting the Master by Elissa Wald

Current Listening: Cocteau Twins

Hobbies: Knitting, reading and journaling, yoga, listening to podcasts (cinema and history related topics are My go-to's)

COME CLOSER. GO DEEPER.

Holistic BDSM Sessions start at 400/hour.

Dominant Companion experiences start at 600/hour.

I offer Virtual Sessions via Phone and Zoom/Skype. Read the entirety of this site before applying for any experience, including Protocol and Policies.

I always practice Risk Aware Consensual Kink and have in-depth conversations about safety and well-being with any submissive I choose to see. I accept applications from submissives of any legal age, from all race and gender backgrounds. Safewords are mandatory. See My Directory for BDSM and Sex Ed resources for folks of all experience levels.

All sessions are completely legal and based on the mutual understanding that compensation is for time exchanged. 

SPECIALTIES

  • To Me, pain and pleasure represent two sides of the same coin - often one can enhance the other. With the guidance of My skilled touch and gentle, grounding voice, you will find the strength to face your fears and transform through destruction and rebirth.

    How will you suffer for Me?

    Kneeling on rice, your hands in prayer, with a posture collar in place around your neck?

    Under My leather combat boots, as I twist the heel into your flesh?

  • The act of consensually beating an eager bottom is one I find at times meditative, at times arousing. What chemistry will W/we create?

    I am fascinated with the way different implements (and of course, My powerful femme hands) leave galaxies of bruises behind as evidence of My loving touch. My favorite implements are as follows:

    • hands

    • canes

    • paddles, especially leather

  • I have an obsession with My own luscious scent and luxurious, rare fur - soon you will too.

    My curly auburn hair is 100% natural. I leave My beautiful hairy armpits in their natural state, and My unique smoky sweat is easily detected on the occasion I do not wear deodorant.

    If you’re a good pet, you can politely beg to experience the essence of an all-natural hairy queer femme.

  • Under the pressure of My weight, you will find peace as you struggle for breath. you will focus on nothing but the joy of being crushed with My heels and the rush of being breathless under My ass.

    Note that I only offer clothed face-sitting, to those who have earned the privilege.

  • My fetish for leather knows no bounds. I am studied in bootblacking and many forms of leather care. This buttery, erotic material electrifies Me whenever My fingers brush against a freshly conditioned coat or polished pair of glistening black boots. An excellent gift for your Goddess would be Huberd’s shoe grease (which is body safe, to a leather pervert‘s delight.)

    Demonstrate your devotion by learning to properly care for My boot collection and leather wardrobe, and be of service to Me in a most intimate and erotic setting. you will be trained and guided before I reward you for your diligence.

    A note on service: this is an activity which may appeal to those interested in tangible learning acts of service, such as bootblacking, as part of a power exchange dynamic, even if a leather fetish is not present.

  • Allow your Goddess to transform you into a puppet for My entertainment, I especially enjoy Wartenberg wheels, hot wax and ice cubes, and various forms of chemical play that involve sensory manipulation (ie ginger root, sweet almond oil, tiger balm) in combination with bondage elements.

    Reach a heightened state of embodiment as I toy with your senses and your mind.

  • Training leather puppies is a passion of Mine. Do you have what it takes to be a diligent, obedient hound for Me?

    I also delight in playing with piggies, kittens and ponies - all beastly personas are welcome in My domain.

  • This intimate form of fluid play may look like a quiet, relaxed scene of body worship, or perhaps may manifest as a punishing humiliation session. No matter what form of energy and power exchange W/we create together, I am always well-hydrated.

  • On feminization with cis men:

    Allow yourself to give in to your craving for transformation and glamour. I delight in adopting the role of an encouraging, sensual guide on your feminization journey. I especially love to help submissives access their submissive (and perhaps slutty!) femme side. The softness of thigh high stockings and sensual makeup application will leave you weak.

    Note - you may be humiliated while sissified/feminized, but not for being sissified/feminized, as I do not practice humiliation for simply dressing in a feminine manner.

    On gender play:

    I love sissy/femme training with cis men, but as a genderfluid femme I also delight in playing with gender with fellow queers. For example, a queer gender play scene could involve gender affirming roleplay scenarios - you see a “therapist” who reveals your true desire to cross-dress, and slowly introduces unorthodox, intimate techniques into your sessions to teach you how to be your truest self.

    Perhaps you dream of being a genderless latex-clad toy, to be altered and adorned for My designs and desires.

    If medical fetishism fascinates you as much as Me, it’s possible you desire a medical fetish scene where I bend over you, a dripping hormone shot in a gloved hand, ready to administer the sting you so badly need.

  • I often observe pets in awe at My high arches and elegant toes. I have countless pairs of leather boots to protect My gorgeous feet - My favorite use for good pets is allowing you to condition and worship My boots before administering a thorough foot massage.

  • "The softest touch cuts deeper than the ocean." My touch is My gift, and your curse. My gentle, alto voice and skillful hands are My most powerful tools. Melt as I whisper your fate down the back of your neck, and give soft commands in your ear.

  • There is no sacrifice sweeter than a willing blood sacrifice. My attunement to a submissive feels most intimate and complete when I am altering their flesh for My enjoyment. Needles, scalpels combined with cupping sets are My favorite tools for risk-aware sanguinary play. Don't be scared, little lamb...

    *I am certified in OSHA's Bloodborne Pathogens Training course and always practice Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

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